Dating Advice: Why Masculine Men Commit To One Woman

Why masculine men commit

Andre Paradis, relationship coach shares dating advice on what makes masculine men commit to one woman. Sometimes these masculine men are scary, but these are the guys who want a woman and a family to take care of. They want a kingdom, which is you and the kids and a family.  These, masculine men, want to provide for and cherish you.

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Bio

Andre Paradis, Relationship Coach, NLP Coach, Educator of Effective Communications, Published Writer, Public Speaker, and Ordained Minister. Grew up in Canada, then became a professional dancer, dancing with legends including Michael Jackson, Prince, Paula Abdul, Julio Eglesias to name a few. Later he attended a workshop called “Understanding Women.” And studied and learned from some of the biggest relationship masters (Dr. Pat Allen, Dr. Esther Perel, Dr. John Gray, Shantie Feldhan, and Alison Armstrong). He started sharing his knowledge with friends and family.

He saw that this knowledge actually helped people lead happier lives with the people they love. He found a new purpose in life… The Big Calling deep inside him. He then sold his successful auto shop and launched Project 
Equinox Coaching to help men and women learn to build stronger, long-lasting, and healthy love relationships. For some clients, he even officiates their wedding.” 
 

Myrna: I think love is in trouble. Why do you think relationships are so difficult now?

Andre: It’s a no brainer, I have seen it coming for about a decade now. It is the difference between men and women. You know Men are from Mars and women are from Venus.  Men say, why did you talk so much? And women saying stuff like, he doesn’t talk.  But 10 years ago, it started shifting in the past five years incredibly quick. Is the concept of equality in the world, equal rights, equal pay, equal opportunities, fantastic for the feminist movement, I get it.

The core being that men should be like women, and women should be like men to be a good woman. So, we raise women up to be strong, independent, powerful. This is fantastic. But it’s sort of over calibrated into women living like men. And then we teach young men, to be sweet, sensitive, vulnerable, talkative, showing vulnerability makes them boys.

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Why equality is the killer of romance

Myrna: Are we saying that men should be not vulnerable?

Andre: There’s a lot of data on this and we’ll talk about that a little bit. The opposite of what people think, people think less offers more protection towards women and children. Everything I teach is different. While the possibilities for money can bring opportunity or, equality, in the realm of relationships you depolarize everything with, equality.

Men and women need, polarity, to be attracted to each other. So, it’s masculine and feminine. It’s a positive magnet vs a negative magnet, it’s black and white. In all the shades in between.  The more polarity in a relationship, the more effective it is. So, we are neutralizing relationships when we insist on, equality. It’s the kiss of death in relationships. Don’t do it.

Myrna: You said a couple of things there. Yep. us the first thing you said was that problem is that men don’t talk, men don’t listen.  These are masculine traits, and the feminine traits are woman wanting to talk is no longer the problem. So, the problem with relationships today is that men are feminine and women are more masculine.

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Traits of masculine men

Andre: Correct, we have 3 types of men. The boys are the ones who lie, cheat and scam women. They don’t want to work. They want women to work. They are the feminists. They say “You go girl, get that double promotion” and they lay on the couch and spoon the dog while the women work.

Then we have the guys who are somewhere in the middle.  They’re masculine enough to have jobs and cars and have their own place. They don’t live in a basement of their mother’s house any longer.  But when it comes to women, they don’t take you out, or they’ll say stuff like “what do you want to do? They are overly polite and bland, women hate that. So, these guys get to be easily reversed, rehabilitated into masculine stuff.

Now the real man, masculine men,  is a whole different beast, they know who they are because they actually were raised in a system, they had male role models and they understand the value of a man is to go conquer something in the world, build their character and push through their fears. Build a business, leave a legacy etc.  So, the problem with this, we’re going to call it a problem, it’s really not a problem, but the disconnect for you is that those guys are big. They’re big, they’re loud, they’ll run you over sometimes to get where they are going.  The more masculine a man is, the more he does what he does when he feels like it. Not only that, he’s not asking your permission, you’re not telling him what to do. He’s handling it.

Sometimes they are scary but these are the guys who want women and a family to take care of. They want a kingdom, which is you and the kids and a family.  These, masculine men, want to provide for and cherish you. The part you don’t like is they control everything and are difficult to deal with. I teach women how to deal with masculine men. Do you know how masculine men connect with women?

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How do  masculine men connect with women

Myrna: No, I don’t know, tell me.

Andre:  Masculine men, connect to, feminine women, by being in their presence. He wants to have you in his space. Most women don’t understand this, they’ll say to you, Lets go to Home Depot and the woman would respond “I don’t want to go there.” You just mess it up. He is inviting you in his space, no talking necessary. By the way. This is when you screw it up. If you’re going to invade his space and then don’t fill it up with talking. You may not get invited back into his space.

Myrna: Why do you say, equality, is the kiss of death in relationships?

Andre: If you equalize our energies together, you neutralize the demand for, polarity, and its diversity so equal relationships are not sustainable. Whether, equality, is in the form of 50/50 on everything, or, equality, in the chores, equality, will essentially kill the sexual dynamics. You become roommates after a while.

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Why do masculine men commit to a woman

Myrna: What makes a masculine man committed to one woman?

Andre: Masculine men have a hard time finding women nowadays because they’re all masculine. Ladies if you want to be the one a masculine man commits to, you have to be a unicorn in the crowd, which means not a masculine woman but a woman with feminine essence.

Masculine Men commit to one woman for these reasons:
  1. Polarity- masculine men want feminine women.
  2. Masculine men are looking for a co- pilot, they don’t want you to fly the plane alone. They need a feminine woman to be by his side. He needs you to be a support system for the life that he has created for his family. Why masculine men commit to one woman? He wants a partner, a co-pilot.
  3. Be his confidant when he needs one. Masculine men will control, manage and lead everything, but often they’ll go babe. “I don’t know what to do with this. What should we do?” This is a partnership, a team that’s working together, flying the plane together. Two pilots, the pilot and the copilot, the president and vice president. In every corporation somebody has to lead and somebody else has to manage.

Myrna: When a man chooses a woman, she is the one he loves and he is definitely looking for his co-pilot, but a lot of men are playing the field and not choosing a woman.  He will go out with a whole bunch of women and not commit and then one would come into his life and he’ll commit immediately. So, what are the dynamics here? What you’re saying is that masculine men want to settle down and start a family; only the boys want to play.

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Boys want to play the field

Andre: There you go. You are now getting it right, only the boys want to play the field.  Masculine men want a kingdom. They want to build a kingdom with you. That’s what makes them get out of bed in the morning. They live for that stuff. Women think that sex is what makes a man settle down. That’s actually the opposite it makes them go. You’re not worthy, you have zero or too low value. Who else has been in here? Not doing it. I’m not doing anything with you.

Myrna: Tell us about your coaching programs and how readers can connect with you.

Andre: My mission  is to change the culture of relationships, because what is happening out there is destroying families; destroying the possibility of healthy children.  When a family is not healthy or broken, it keeps children from building their own healthy families and having healthy children. So, when you destroy families, you destroy our culture. Now it’s my mission to recalibrate the culture. So, thank you for helping me spread this word.

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Free Relationship coaching from Andre

I have two coaching gifts actually for your listeners. the first one is for the brave and the other one is for the less brave. Coaches are the key to success whether it’s a business coach or life coach, relationship coach or a nutrition coach. Whatever success you are looking for in life a coach can help. This is why the coaching industry is the growing by leaps and bounds. So, if your listeners, resonated with anything I’m saying and they want to talk to me personally then sign up for a free coaching session at  www.Andregroupcoaching.com that takes you to my calendar.

Schedule a FREE one-hour session whether it is for men or women. There is a questionnaire to help me sort of understand where you are before you’re on the call and we have a zoom call like this, one on one. On that call we will figure out what’s not working for you and what the dream is. I’m really good. In 15 minutes, we’ll figure out exactly what things came up. It’s typically  In childhood trauma or the baggage that we carry.

I can’t get anybody in a healthy relationship until we understand your baggage. So, in that call, we actually unpack the baggage.  So that alone is life changing. For some people to understand there’s nothing wrong with them. They just right. And from there, we’re talking about the future. What is it that you want? And then I’ll tell you different options if you want to work with me. You know ABCDE depending on your willingness or your finances, so that’s one way to do it.

The next way is somebody’s who’s not as brave you can email me directly at Andrecoaching1@Gmail.com. Write to me, tell me what’s going on.  I will answer personally.

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 Additional Resources 

What Men Want In A Woman

Kevin Samuels: Black Women Over 35 Are Low Value

Black Women Over 35

The late, Kevin Samuels, controversially said that, Black women, over 35 cannot get a man because any, high value man, could get a younger woman.

The gist of his message was that women over 35 who are single with children are like used cars. Top quality men don’t want them since they they are, low value, and the, high value man, have options and they exercise these options for younger women with no children and baby daddy drama.

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The 35 and Single Black Women Dilemma

So here in lies the dilemma.  Even though women were calling, Kevin Samuels, a scum bag, he had a huge following of men because they knew he was talking truth. These so called, high value men, were willing to rip into a man of God Dr.  Jamal Bryant, senior pastor at New Birth in Atlanta, in defense of, Kevin  Samuels.

It is true that, black women, over 35 are looking for the, high value man, and  men over 35 are looking for younger women? How do we know this is true? The reason I know this is true is because everyone is looking and nobody is finding love, because love is not about hair, booty, breasts or skin color. Love is about chemistry, it is an energy.

So, ladies my, dating advice,  to you is you must age like fine wine, you have much more to offer a man and you need to let him see this. You have experience.

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Dating Advice for Black Women

Remember that relationship you walked out of in your 20ths, now you realize that it was the best relationship you ever had. There is a lesson in every failure.

So now that you are 35+ and single; what have you learned about men? What I have learned is that the, high value man, would sleep with the 35+, black woman, with the good hair and the booty, but they look for more in the woman they marry.

So, while you are sitting on the shelf, make yourself ready for your husband. You have to become,  wife material.

6 ways to become wife material
  • Learn to speak on a variety of topics, men are no longer attracted to the dumb pretty woman anymore.
  • Learn the rules of basketball and football.  Most men like sports so, you must learn to like them as well, so he doesn’t have to go out with the boys to watch the game. He could watch it with his woman.
  • Learn to cook dinner for two. A man wants to marry a woman who can cook.
  • Get a gym membership, men like to hold muscles not fat.
  • Learn to control your tongue, sometimes silence is the best answer.
  • Learn to build up a man and not tear him down. Life and death are in the tongue, speak life into your man. Encourage him, listen to him, support him.
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Kevin Samuels YouTube Videos

I listened to, Kevin Samuels, most famous video. This video had 3M views and over 3K comments when I watched it months ago! Kevin Samuels, was speaking to a woman who was 35 had a 13-year-old son and was making 6 figures. She said she wanted a, high value man, who made 6 figures because when she dates men below her pay grade, she gets idiots.

Kevin Samuels, asked her from a scale of 1 to 10 where would she fall and she said 6. He then told her that, high value men, who make 6 figures are in the top 10% of all men and have options.  They are not looking for an average, black woman,  35+ with a 13-year-old son.

He is correct, they are not looking for you, but if you age like fine wine and prepare yourself while you’re fermenting, they will take a sip of you and become intoxicated.

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Black women prepare yourself to become a high value woman

The other thing I have learned is it may have been a long time since you have been held by a man and you can’t wait to jump into bed; don’t do it. A man must respect the woman he marries. Don’t sleep with him until he calls you his girlfriend and you are sure he is not married!

There is a dilemma for, black women, over 35 who are single with children, but finding love is not impossible. I got married at 46 with a 16-year-old daughter. The chemistry was right and I was prepared. So don’t let anyone tell you, you have no value and that you are like a used car. Antiques cars are more valuable than new cars. You have wisdom, skills, and know how to treat and keep a man.

Conclusion

Hope this helps someone.

You have been listening to 5 mins with coach Myrna, I want to invite you to join my Facebook group called Lifecoach, for inspiration throughout the week.  Until next time Namaste